Letters to Norah // 28 Months
For our family, Father’s Day didn’t look like a Target ad; there was no barbecue on a shiny new grill, no whiskey glasses and leather chairs, no new TV and no new watch.
Our Father’s Day celebration did include all of your Grandpas.
It also included a trip to the cemetery.
Letters to Norah // 27 Months
I picture your grandma walking with you around our property, embodying patience and grace as she watches you toddle around, stopping to explore and examine every. single. thing.
Seen // Mother's Day 2019
I am a mother.
I am a daughter.
I am a mother who has lost her daughter and a daughter who has lost her mother.
There’s no Hallmark card for this.
Letters to Norah // 26 Months
Are there seasons in Heaven, Norah? Do you get to feel the heat of summer sun on your skin or be refreshed by a deep breath of crisp fall air? Do you get to make snow angels in the winter that provide a place for the first blades of springtime grass to peek through?
Letters to Norah // 25 Months
Sometimes people think that a child born after loss helps to ease the pain, being a life to celebrate and carry forward. But our love and gratitude for the life of Lora stands side-by-side with the love and longing we carry for you. This is no different than any other family, really; having a second child doesn’t mean you love your first child any less – it simply means that your heart expands to hold both. That’s true for loss families as well, it just looks a little different.